destinyation asked: My boyfriend and I broke up recently. We only dated for about 4 months, he told me that he couldn't make me happy because he had a lot of shit going on. We have been broken up for about a month and I'm still not over it. It's driving me fucking insnae. This is going to sound so slutty, but I just want to fuck someone else to get over him, and I have had chances, yet every time I come close, I can't I get some sort of mental block. How do I get over him? I'm sick of feeling this way.
you won’t ever get over him if you keep trying to get over him. I know it’s one of those things that are like really hard to get out of your head but try putting your happiness in other places and other people hang out with friends and family more and don’t stress over getting over him. that’s the worst way to do, and i know you said it sounds slutty but really, that made sense. but even if you did do things with someone else, the feelings won’t go away forever you know? just the amount of time you’re with that other person. the best thing to do in my opinion is try to put your happiness in other places and distract yourself from the though of him as much as you poasibly can, the less you think anout it the easier it will be to get over him. good luck!
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Anonymous asked: continued... i know he has a girlfriend and i don't wanna get in between the two of them but i can't stop thinking about him & i really like him. he didn't say he doesn't like me too, all he said was "i have a girlfriend" ugggggHHH
in all honesty, you know that saying “when you love someone you think of their happiness before your own” if you really really like him, maybe try to ask him about it but in a way so it doesn’t upset him, or make him think you wanna break him and his girlfriend up, because maybe he’s confused about it himself. and maybe talking to you about it will help him AND help your situation. Ya know? But really nothing will happen until you actually step up and try to help yourself. i promise things will be okay, things always have a way of working themselves out
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Anonymous asked: im in love with my ex, even though we broke up almost a year ago. he has a new girlfriend. i'm still stuck on him. everyone says we're the perfect couple and him and his new girlfriend aren't gonna work out. but idk :/ i miss him so much and he's graduating this year and it's going to be so weird not being able to see him and talk to him everyday im going to be so depressed next year :/ he makes me so happy yet so sad at the same time, knowing i can't have him. idk what to do i just can't moveon
you have to put your happiness in different places and in different people before he leaves. whether it’s in just a best friend, a group of friends, a family member, a hobby, something. because he isn’t going to be around forever, and when he does go to college and all, you can’t just sit around being sad. it’s not fair to you at all. i know it’s really hard but if you really do try to put your happiness in different places, i promise things will get easier.
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Anonymous asked: I like this guy&we're bestfriends like I'm the only girl he trusts&we've been texting alot like til 11:30pm&we hug everyday, we joke around a lot&he sends random smiley faces/hearts in a conversation.. but he told me he doesn't like anyone&like I like him a bit&I don't know if he does or not. does he?&some of my friends think he does&everyone at our school thinks we have a thing but i don't know I don't want to ruin our close bond or anything but like what should I do?
honestly i’ve been in that situation, he most likely does like you. but at the same time he doesn’t wanna ruin the friendship so he’s probably just waiting for the feelings to go away. if i were in your place i would just wait for him to say something, unless you really don’t wanna wait, i’m sure if you told him that you like him, he’d be thrilled. but before you decide to date or anything at all, take into consideration the friendship you have right now and what may or may not change about it once you date/break up. because sometimes it’s better to stay close friends than take the chance of becoming enemies or strangers in the near future.
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Anonymous asked: My mom said i was the only sane one, i jokingly said I am no. I was being serious . i am developing anxiety and more thing effect me than she thinks. I wont tell her that she needs one ok child
you are an okay child. just because you have anxiety, or are developing it. does not mean that you’re insane. nor does it make you any less normal than anyone else. i know it seems that way because no one can understand what you’re going through. but having anxiety, or any other thing like anxiety such as depression, does not make you insane. if anything, it makes you human.
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Anonymous asked: So me and my bf have been dating for almost a year. Hes my best friend. We get along perfectly. Weve told each other how much we love each other, & we wanna spend the rest of our lives with each other, we really meant it. I know were just kids, but we did. Hes the sweetest boy ive ever dated, hes knows everything about me. lately, ive been talking to this other guy, nothings happened w him, we just talk. but I feel butterflies when I get a text from him, I smile when I talk to him (contin)...
blah i didn’t get the continuation but one thing to always keep in mind is that if you liked the first one enough or like, a lot, the second would not have that place in your heart that he does. but at the same time the devil you know is better than the devil you don’t know. if i were you i would stay with the current bf, and just wait to see if the feelings for the other guy just fade out or get stronger
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luvm4lik asked: i feel like everyone secretly hates me. i'm always getting picked on @ school because of my acne. & the amount of make-up i put on. sometimes it makes me not even want to go to school. i have been feeling so alone these days, i just don't know what to do. like some people don't even know me & don't know what goes through my head, & they call me a whore, ugly, fat, etc. it hurts to tell you the truth.
people at school are always going to be little bastards. people like to hurt people. there are so many sick people out there that like feed off of other people’s miseries. it’s pathetic. they’re pathetic. you’re a gorgeous girl, there is nothing wrong with you. don’t listen to them. there are always going to be people that wanna bring you down, but behind every insult is a little jealousy. brush them off. i know it’s so hard, but stick to your friends, they are the only people you need. you won’t even know see these people in a couple years. they won’t be anywhere near them. there are always going to be people trying to bring you down, but you are always going to better than they are. i promise you, they aren’t worth anything at all. at all. i promise okay? <3
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Anonymous asked: So, there's this guy at my school. I always notice him and I've talked to him a few times, but not really enough that we're friends or talk a lot or anything. I really like him. It's been like this for almost half a year now...but he doesn't even notice me.. and I wish that he did. We have no classes together, and are in different grades. Sometimes we walk the same way home, and i thought maybe we could walk together, but i didnt want that to seem creepy...how should I get him to notice me? D:
talk to him. there’s no reason to not talk to him, if you like him he has to be a nice guy and if you don’t talk to him there really is no way at all that he will ever notice you. there’s nothing wrong with talking to him or asking if he wants to walk home together, don’t start hinting him that you like him until after a couple months or so of actually talking to him as friends and stuff. good luck! c:
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Anonymous asked: You never answered my advice that i needed... :(
i didn’t get it then :/ im sorry resend it! :c
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